The 20 Things You Need To Accomplish In Your 20s part 1

interesting!
I saw a friend shared this link on facebook! managed to read it and just wanna share my thoughts :) yaaaa alasan utamanya sih karena tertantang pengen tau apa sih isinya secara ya bok taon ini terakhir maen-maen di angka kepala 2 hihihi, yesh i'll be 29 this year! I feel sad honestly! there goes my 20s but somehow i'm happy .. mungkin ke arah ya-pasrah-emang-umur-nambah-terus-tiap-taon yak hihihi ;) anyway, let's start .. dan btw ini sistemnya mundur kayak nonton pelem item putih .. dan bagian gw yang digaris miring yak hihihi :)

20. Let go of the past and look forward to the future
By the age of 29, there will be many things that you will accomplish and there will be things that you failed at. You must learn to let go of your failures and learn from them. You must not think about what you could have or should have done, but rather what you will do next. The 30s are the new 20s, so get your shit together and make something of the next decade! -- checked!! well, kemaren-kemaren, maksudnya taon-taon kemaren geto pernah lho gw ngerasa melo bener, banyak penyesalan dan kekhilafan di masa muda gw, tapi ya udah lha! I don't live in the past .. angkat kepala dan pandan masa depan! I wanna live the present!! *kibasin rambut*

19. Accept that you are an adult
By the time that you reach 27 years of age there should be no doubt in your mind that you have reached adulthood. This is the time to accept that you are an adult and that it is time to act like one. This does not necessarily mean to tone down your crazy escapades, but it may. In your 20s you need to come to terms with being your own master and taking responsibility for your decisions and your life. -- checked! hihihi .. ya kayak yang gw bilang tadi suka self denial kalo taon ini 29 tapi at the end of the day gw menerima kalo gw dikategorikan sebagai orang dewasa yang punya tanggung jawab dan harus memenuhi kewajiban untuk memperoleh hak gw! tsahhh .. PPKN bener jawaban gw :) well, it's good to be a child but nothing wrong being an adult .. I embrace my adulthood! HAHA ;)

18. Learn to maintain and keep your environment organized
Your personal home environment very much reflects who you are as a person, who you are inside. If your surroundings are hectic, you are likely to feel inner tension. If your surroundings are neat and peaceful, your mind most likely experiences the same peace. If you want to find and maintain peace, then you must manifest your inner peace in your outer surroundings.--checked!  aku orangnya rapih koq! beneran dhe! ga boong! haha makin berusaha meyakinkan koq jadi kesannya malah boong yaa hihihi .. basically gw orangnya cukup rapih walopun kadang suka nunggak gosokan hehe ;)

17. Learn to maintain your body
Exercise is important. And so are all the grooming tasks that a person should learn to maintain throughout the years. Looking tidy, organized and well trimmed becomes more and more important the older you become. You may not feel the need to trim those nose hairs now, but you will when you are 50. This goes for both men and women. -- on progress!! i'm trying again now! tadi pagi udah mulai bangun pagi lagi buat olahraga and I really really really hope this time will last .. kalo kata abang ga usah muluk-muluk tiap hari,  mulai aja seminggu 2x atau 3x yang penting rutin! rajin! garis bawahi kata rutin, anak-anak !! :) intinya gw mau hidup sehat! dan langsing juga! hihi .. buat diri gw sendiri, buat suami, buat anak-anak gw entar .. mohon dukungan doanya sekali lagi kawan ..

16. Learn to dress well
People judge you on how you look and how you dress. Wearing the right clothing for each occasion will make whatever you wish to accomplish a bit easier — in the very least it will only work to your benefit and not against you as would dressing poorly or inappropriately. Women need to learn how to wear dresses and walk in heels (walk, not waddle) and men should get comfortable in a suit. No matter who you are, there will be at the very least several times that you will need to dress to impress. -- gw setujuh sama ini. gw ini termasuk orang kaos dan celana jeans! ga lupa sneakernya juga .. casual banget dan cenderung cuek sebenernya .. well gw pake baju yang menurut gw nyaman but at the same time seiring bertambahnya usia dan kecentilan, gw belajar gimana kaos dan jeans gw keliatan lebih gaya geto! saelah .. hihihi .. penampilan luar memang bukan segalanya tapi cara loe berpakain nunjukkin seberapa saying dan pedulinya loe sama diri loe sendiri, itu menurut gw yah. well, you don't have to follow all the trends but at least loe tau apa yang loe suka, yang cocok di badan loe and embrace it :) ya iya sekarang udah bukan kaos celana jeans lagi tapi udah ngerempet ke mana-mana hihiihihi ;) double checked!

15. Start to accumulate a fortune
I don’t know about all of you, but I plan on being a billionaire. If you are to become a billionaire, you will have to become a millionaire first. Hit that first million by 30 and your first billion by 40. -- umh, gw pernah mikir enaknya kalo bisa beli ini itu tanpa mikir, seriously enaknya kalo pengen ini tinggal ambil terus ngelenggang ke kasir tapi sekarang engga dhe. i'm not aiming to be a billionaire. i try to be contented sama apa yang gw punya. fortune definisi gw itu sekarang happiness!! i want to accumulate happiness :) so, checked!

14. Learn to adapt
We must all embrace change — the sooner the better. Change occurs constantly and unless we learn to change along with it, we will get left behind. Sticking to the ways of the past finds you living a life unfit for reality, but rather fit for a time that once was. The longer you wait to embrace change, the more difficult it will be to change your ways and habits. -- checked! belajar bener gw hal ini in my 20s hihihi .. perubahan kadang enak kadang ga enak tapi kadang kita ga bisa hindari dan  yang kita bisa lakukan ya adapt, dan manusia itu diciptain dengan kemampuan adapt yang luar biasa menurut gw .. dengan catatan asal kitanya mau!! nothing wrong with changes .. it's good! and fun too sometimes :)


13. Outline your perfect partner
Some believe that it’s best to leave love to chance or fate. I, on the other hand, believe that loving is a decision and not some completely random, unexplainable concept. You may not be able to find a woman that matches your dream woman 100%, but you should have a good idea of what you do want in a partner and what you don’t want — as well as how important each characteristic or lack of is to you. -- checked! yesh! gw list down suami yang gw mau dan gw dapet!!! hihihihi :) well nobody's perfect tapi the interesting part is how you guys work out those differences. embrace!! enjoy the journey yang tentunya buat jadi semakin baik yaaaaa .. inget bener ya dulu waktu jaman smp kalo ditanya mau cowo kayak gimana pasti tuh mikirnya yang physical banget, .. yang ga pake kacamata, tinggi, idung mancung, suaranya enak .. hahaha .. ya namanya juga anak smp. gw inget banget gw bikin list calon suami pas kuliah! gw minta yang cina tapi bukan cina haha .. cenderung agak rasis tapi kan ini yang gw pengen jadi sah aja donk!! gw minta yang kayak bokap .. kurang dapet gimana coba sekarang kecuali di bagian rambut ya beda secara si abang menjunjung asas botak itu keren! bokap gw sama abang bdaynya aja cuma beda 4 hari dan more or less mirip hihihi .. satu hal lagi yang gw percaya, Tuhan pasti kasih yang compatible, yang sepadan buat kita! :)

12. Reestablish your connection with your family
Keeping on good terms with your family is important — if possible, of course. I understand that not everyone is allotted the luxury of good parents, but for those of us that were ought to try to keep in touch as much as possible. Even if you were never much of a family person, as I wasn’t, if you plan on having a family of your own one day, you’ll want to be adding onto an already solid family tree -- checked! thanks to email, skype, facebook, watssap hihihi .. jauh di mata tapi dekat di hati. i might not be the best daughter or sister .. but i do love my family and i cherish! dulu deket berantem mulu sekarang jauhan kangen mulu! there was a time when i didn't talk to my dad, we argued about sooo many things even kalo bokap di bawah gw melipir ke atas dan begitu sebaliknya but i realized that family is my treasure. hubungan kita getting better and better dan gw ngerasa he's my biggest support during my wedding preparation .. yaa ngetik ini aja gw ngerembes inget si papa .. i love you pa, mi, glad, and gi!!! :)

11. Surround yourself with people that you would like to keep around
Having close friends are important. Building a trusting relationship with someone takes years, so it’s best to get crackin’. Do people make new friends in their 30s? -- checked! people come and go and i learnt to let go people in my 20s, not only let go, i cut off people in my 20s. sounds cruel and arrogant but tell you the truth that one the ways to keep yourself happy. i'm happy with my circle dan sangat tidak menutup kemungkinan gw akan punya circle-circle baru in the future tapi ibaratnya sekarang lebih selektif kali yaaa .. dan on the other hand gw juga ga akan maksa orang buat suka dan temenan sama gw kalo mereka piker itu ga penting ..

10. Find work that you love doing
The key is to do what you love and love what you do. If your work doesn’t give meaning to your life, which honor may very well be reserved for your friends and family, then it must at the very least not make your life more unpleasant. The perfect job is out there for you. Figure out what that is while your age still starts with the number 2. Once you hit 30, it will be more difficult to get hired without any previous experience. -- checked! i love being a teacher. kata yang harus gw pake adalah grateful. despite all those admin stuff dan paper works yang menurut gw suka-ga-penting, i'm happy i can impact my knowledge and share my life. beside being a teacher, i'm happy .. well blessed that i'm rooted in TLG, consider that not as a real work or job but it's a work of love. it's a privilege i can serve my generation :)

.. segini dulu aja yaaaa, bersambung ke part 2. biar berasa keren geto ;)
well, maybe you can start doing your check list too ;)

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pengen cepet-cepet ngerombak kelasnya kelar .. iye aja donk principal gw memberi amanah sebelom dia cuti kalo dia pengen liat ada light table di kelas gw, .. dan hari ini baru gw geret tuh light table dari store room haha .. kelasnya jadi berantakan lagi huhu .. ntar ya kalo udah beres gw potoin tempat bermaen gw tiap ariiiii ;)

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Hot Momma in The Making ..

terhasut omongan temen gw yang menyimpulkan gw hamil gara-gara kelakuan gw di sekolah yang pusing-pusing, meriang-meriang ga jelas terus laperrrr .. ditambah itu komen-komen si may, dina, pypy jugaaa akhirnya gw beli test pack!!! hihihi ..

melipir ke watson pas rabu kemaren sebelom kelas terus beli test pack yang paling murah, $7 aja merek watson hihihi .. karena gw sendiri ngerasa ga mungkin hamil juga geto secara kita emang jaga tapi koq iya penasaran dan kepo yaaaa. niatnya sampe rumah pengen ngetes terus baru bilang ke si abang tapiii mikir lagi akhirnya ngaku duluan ke abang kalo gw beli test pack yang disambut dengan, "gw yakin loe kaga hamil, tapi kalo penasaran ya coba aja sana" .. coba? kaga!! gw mengurungkan niat. pengecut gw!!!  di satu sisi karena gw juga ga ngerasa hamil .. sampe besokanya gw kena migrain lagi donk di sekolah!! dan kolig gw tambah berkoar-koar nyemangatin secara doi baru hamil juga geto .. akhirnya pulang ke rumah dan gw baca tuh cara pemakaian test pack .. gw baca sampe 3x beneran biar ga salah pake ..

sendirian akhirnya gw coba dan yang kuar .. satu setrip! yang berarti negatip .. bodohnya ya udah ga tau ga hamil tapi koq kayak ngarep juga, harap-harap cemas ga jelas terus deg-degan juga!!! haduh!!! malu sendiri gw rasanyaaa .. tapi terharu juga geto ngebayangin kalo emang nanti beneran yang kuar 2 setrip apa ya reaksi gw.. kalo kata temen gw, muncul di instagram!! haish!!! you-know-me-so-well ..

jadi ya gw meriang, migrain, muntah-muntah karena gw cape dan stress katanya tapi gw sampe sekarang mikir apa yang bikin gw stress .. kalo gw laperr itu karena emang gw rakus! hahaha ;D
ya Tuhan tau yang terbaek lha buat gw sama abang, belom waktunya juga .. di satu sisi emang kita kan juga jaga sih jadi gw nikmatin dulu aja sekarang waktu gw berduaan sama si abang, dan gw pasti akan menikmati waktu dimana gw jadi ibu :)

and yesh! gw berjanji mau jadi hot momma .. ahay! ;)